Nothin' good

Today's ultrasound was dismal, although we are not totally out of the game...yet. Gestational sac was seen, but no yolk sac. The gestational sac was not "plump", so the RE said she was not optimistic about the outcome. Of course there is still that miserable thin shred of possibility that things could turn around next week, so for the moment we are hanging on. I got the oh too familiar "I'm so sorry" hugs on our way out of the ultrasound room. It appears that although this cycle is not officially over, hope is gone from a medical stand point. We head over to the conference room to have a little more in depth conversation with the RE now that I am clothed and without a probe up my chickie. She is on vacation next week so she will not be able to follow up personally with me and she wanted to go over some possible scenarios. She is amazing. First off she asked who I wanted to have the appointment with in her absence, which I thought was very sensitive. Then we got down to brass tacks. If this is indeed a nonviable pregnancy, then she doesn't feel like I need to have a D&C, especially given how small the gestational sac is, so the next step could possibly include misoprostol to induce miscarrying the "products of conception". Anyone have any experience they would like to share here? Is this painful? Is it awful? I'm anticipating needing to miss a day's work or so.

I guess I shouldn't get too far ahead of myself, but this is where I feel we are heading. I am also trying to wrap my head around doing another cycle. Because of my age I have always felt like I need to press full steam ahead...I'm not getting any younger after all. The RE did say that she would be ok with a 2 month break for me, but not 6. Maybe that would be just enough time to feel a little more normal, a little less hormonal and perhaps, dare I say it, a little more in shape.

In the mean time, another beta tomorrow. If has plateaued or dropped, then that indicates things are going south. If it continues to rise, then it could mean continued growth of placental tissue, but not embryonic...so that really doesn't mean anything.

I'm working really hard at trying to not feel anything. I don't want to give up totally, but I don't want to have false hope either. I wish I could just find a state of numbness and stay there for at least a week or so. Boy, do I want a drink!!